An anonymous married man seeks advice due to his wife’s reluctance to get pregnant while living her twenties clubbing and living like she’s single.
The man, aged 33, who married a 22-year-old woman over a year ago expressed concern about his wife’s lifestyle, claiming she lives as if she were single, engages in partying, and dresses inappropriately.
When he raised his concerns, she dismissed them, stating they were something to be bothered about. The man also mentioned that she insisted on delaying childbirth until she turned 25.
“Hi I am 33 and my wife is 22 We got married a year ago And she is still living single lifestyle she goes to the club ,dress indecently and anytime I query her she tells me it is nothing serious I even told her we should start having children she said till she is 25 Please any advice,” he wrote.
Reactions trailing man whose wife refused to get pregnant
Love821_ said: “You accepted it from the start. “That’s why..it may be too late..she is used to the life style already..she may still leave because she might “probably be seeing someone else.”
talk2veee said: “33-year-old man no fit control wife wey him marry?? “Lmao. “She saw the weakness in you and is dancing on your head till you wake up.”
Roodie77 said: “So she should pause her own life for the man lol it’s the man’s fault marrying such a young lady and expecting her to pause her entire existence cause of him.”
MichaelOyewole_ said: “Guy should not even be married in the first place. “That’s the truth.”
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I am feel sorry because it is said “Love is blind and marriage is an eye-opener. It is true. You see that an 33-year old married man regretted marrying a 22-year old girl who lived on social party or night club.
Before he married her, ask himself does he read good books on for Bachelors and Spinsters only, for younger girls only, for younger boys only, etc? That is what he misses.
This guy is just looking for a way to cover up himself because you can not tell me that you did not have sometime with her before you marry her or you just see her on the road and take her to your house
They woman thinking she is still young and many man are running on my chip so if you like divorce me I will still find another man haha young generation
My dear, the question is. Don’t you know that she clubs before marrying her?
Can such a woman get pregnant and give birth?
You will have to take a drastic measures or you keep managing her.
This guy can not deny it that he doesn’t know the girl before marrying her,maybe he met her in club,what do you expect,that she should stop,you should be use to it.that is where she belongs
A STITCH IN TIME SAVES NINE.This is a matter that should have been curbed during Courtship.Nevertheless try talking with her MUM or better still your PASTOR or SOMEONE she listens to who can make her see reasons as to why she should respect the matrimony.Let them talk some senses into HER. Because when you will start your ACTIONS,It may lead to VIOLENCE And people will start Dragging you from every corner.
She has been clubbing before they married, is just that the guy didn’t do his due diligence about her life style. Sorry.
This is a matter of time all you need is to calm with her and secondly didn’t you guys talk about something similar to this before married to each other?
That is why we men always be careful whom we take as a wife, because some women don’t care the way you think or fill about a matter.