Popular Media personality Solomon Buchi has advised a Twitter user who inquired about the importance of marrying a virgin.
Solomon Buchi in his response, claimed that virgins have the lowest divorce rates, citing a 65% probability of having a happy marriage for women who married as virgins.
Solomon Buchi went on to share his understanding from the Institute for Family Studies, claiming that the non virgins ones are more likely to encounter challenges such as low self-esteem, academic failure, and poor relationship decisions.
According to his findings, majority of sexual problems that occur in marriages comes from past sexual experiences.
The outspoken media personality ward off the tweep’s skeptical reasoning, advising him to refrain from ridiculing virtue and implying that those who lack it may not fully understand its value.
He backed up his claims with statistics saying that 71% of men who had only slept with their spouse reported satisfaction with their marriage, while 64% of women who had only had sex with their spouse claimed happiness in their marriage.
In his words:
“Virgins have the lowest divorce rates. Women who married as virgins have a 65% chance having a very happy marriage than their non-virgin counterpart. “When it comes to sex, less experience is better, at least for the marriage,” – institute for family studies.
“71% of men who have only slept with their spouse reported satisfaction with their marriage, while 64% women who’ve only had sex with their spouse say they’re happy in their marriage.
“Women who’ve had 6 to 10 sexual partners were 13 percent less likely to report marital happiness. For men who have slept with more than 21 partners, they were 15 percent less likely to say they were satisfied with their marriage.
“Non-virgins are projected to suffer more economic lack, low self esteem, academic failure and bad relationship choices.
“In this pornographic world, virginity is a proof of discipline and focus. If anyone should be embarrassed, it should be the other party that revels in sexual promiscuity.
“There’s nothing shameful about marrying on a clean slate. Most sexual problems in marriage stem from past sexual experiences. Lastly, even if there was no benefit of virginity, we ought to stay virgin till marriage because God commanded it. God is wise, I’ll rather follow Him, than follow the bandwagon.
“Stop trying to ridicule virtue just because you lack it.”
7 Responses
Lolz, just that everyone has her own aspects and they can’t show you for now
I totally agree with your observations… the main reason virgin divorce rate is low in most cases is that most virgins don’t have anyone else to compare their current partners to hence no plan B to look forward to this could be a good or bad thing depending on the marriage situation
My dear,its not all about marrying a virgin,it depends on individuals,a good woman doesn’t mean if its a virgin or not,you can marry a virgin and she will run away from the marriage
Not our fault but is good for both man and woman to marry while there still virgin
Some people are grown but not matured, maturity helps in conflict management in relationships not virginity
Hmmmmm, are you not the ones that disvirgin our virgin ni?
It funny but actually fact, Virgin has a deep thinking than an ordinary being
Normally to marry as virgin is the best for woman and man, but it’s you guys that don’t let them remain virgins